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Why Your Athletes' Mental Game Is the Biggest Untapped Advantage


Ask any coach what percentage of their sport is mental, and you'll hear the same answer: "At least 90%."

Then ask how much time their athletes spend training the mental side. The room goes quiet.

It's the biggest contradiction in high school athletics. We build weight rooms, hire strength coaches, invest in film study — but when it comes to the thing coaches say matters most, we leave it to chance. We tell athletes to "stay focused" and "shake it off" without ever teaching them how.

That gap is costing your athletes games they should be winning.

The Problem Isn't Talent — It's Training

Here's what it looks like in practice:

These aren't talent problems. They're mental skills problems. And unlike physical talent, mental skills can be systematically trained.

What "Mental Performance Training" Actually Means

Let's clear up a common misconception: mental performance training isn't therapy. It's not sitting in a circle talking about feelings. It's skill-building — the same way athletes build physical skills through repetition and progressive overload.

Sports psychology research has identified specific, trainable mental skills that separate elite performers from everyone else:

Visualization & Mental Rehearsal — When an athlete vividly imagines performing a skill, their brain activates the same neural pathways as physical practice. Olympic athletes, Navy SEALs, and professional sports teams have used this for decades. Your athletes can too.

Attentional Control — The ability to focus on what matters and block out what doesn't. This is trainable through specific focus drills and techniques like "Reset Words" — a mental trigger that brings an athlete back to the present moment after a mistake or distraction.

Cognitive Restructuring — A fancy term for catching negative self-talk and replacing it with something useful. When your athlete thinks "I always choke in big games," that becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Techniques like STOP & Replace interrupt that pattern before it takes hold.

Stress Inoculation — Gradually exposing athletes to simulated pressure in training so high-stakes moments feel familiar, not overwhelming. It's the same principle behind flight simulators — you practice the hard stuff before it counts.

Anchoring — Creating physical triggers (a fist clench, a deep breath, touching a wristband) that activate specific mental states on demand. Need to shift from anxious to calm before a free throw? An anchor gets you there in seconds.

The Research Is Clear

This isn't wishful thinking. Decades of sports psychology research back it up:

The science is settled. The question isn't whether mental training works — it's why we're not doing it.

Why Most Schools Don't Train the Mental Game

The answer is almost always one of three things:

1. Cost. A private sports psychologist charges $150–250 per hour. For a full athletic department, that's $10,000–25,000+ per year — money most schools simply don't have.

2. Access. Even if a school can afford it, there aren't enough sports psychologists to go around. Most work with college or pro teams, not high schools.

3. Time. Coaches are already stretched thin. Adding another thing to the schedule feels impossible, especially without a structured program to follow.

These are real barriers. But they're also solvable — which is exactly why we built My Mental Gym.

A Weight Room for the Mind

My Mental Gym is a mobile app that delivers daily mental performance training to high school athletes in just 5–10 minutes a day. It's built on a progressive 24-week curriculum — structured like a strength and conditioning program, but for the mind.

Athletes open the app, get their daily drill, practice it, and move on. No extra staff needed. No schedule disruption. Coaches can track engagement and progress through a dashboard.

The curriculum starts with foundational skills — mindfulness, self-talk management, focus — and builds progressively through visualization, pressure management, resilience, leadership, and full game-day integration. Each week builds on the last, just like you wouldn't hand an athlete a 300-pound barbell on day one.

And the cost? $1,499–2,499 per year for an entire athletic department. That's less than two sessions with a private sports psychologist — covering every athlete, every sport, all year long.

The Bottom Line

Every school has a weight room. It's time every school has a mental gym.

Your athletes are already physically trained. The ones who learn to train their minds will be the ones who perform when it matters most — in the fourth quarter, in the championship, in the moments that define a season.

The mental game isn't a nice-to-have. It's the untapped advantage sitting right in front of you.


Jeff Ashmore is a Certified Sport Psychology Coach (CSPC) and the creator of My Mental Gym. To learn more or start a pilot program with your school, visit mymentalgym.com or email info@mymentalgym.com.

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